One of the most pivotal moments of my life was deciding to become a surrogate. It taught me about giving back in the most loving way – through creating life for someone else. It is gift that you can’t put a price on. I have given birth to three beautiful baby boys that will always be a part of me, even though I’m not raising them.
The blogs I’ve written about surrogacy are personal and raw and chalked full of things that may surprise you. Enjoy!
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The Emotional Rollercoaster Cliché that is IVF Looking back, I can only laugh at how easy I thought it would unfold. In September 2016, my husband and I decided to move ahead with IVF after 3 failed IUIs (intrauterine insemination) over the course of the past year. I remember thinking confidently, “OK. We start the…Read More
I’m going to carry a child for people I didn’t even know existed 10 days ago. Cool. Wrapping my head around the fact that I’ve never actually met them and have only video chatted twice wasn’t hard at all actually. When you click with people, you just click. You agreed to carry for them, now…Read More
Surrogacy wasn’t the plan. Then the surrogacy didn’t go as planned. I didn’t know what I didn’t know. Surrogacy wasn’t even on the radar for us. When it became a reality, I still hoped that each step of the way, somehow my fate would change and that by some miracle I wouldn’t need to go…Read More
The Beginning Written by one of our Intended Mothers Never in my life did I think I wouldn’t carry my own child, especially not after the fight I was giving infertility. To say my uterus was inhospitable is an understatement! I have had the pleasure of dealing with a myriad of issues, a perfect storm…Read More
The Beginning – Matching Phase Written by Chantale Chevalier When I decided to become a surrogate, I had so many questions. This was all so new to me. One of my biggest concerns was not being able to match with a couple that was in my area. It was important to me to find someone…Read More
When you are part of an ever-growing industry like fertility, you make it your job to always be researching and fact-finding about the latest advice people give. I’m always speaking with interesting individuals, and professionals in the health field that intrigue me and challenge my current mindset. One such individual was a client of mine…Read More
Changing The Stigma Of Helping Others The Challenge of Commitment Today Commitment – the dictionary meaning of the word is… the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, or activity. It really doesn’t do the word justice. Because it means something that is rare in today’s humanity. Committing to show up, to be…Read More
When I began my dream of starting my own surrogacy agency, I never imagined what it would truly feel like to create something from the ground up and watch it blossom. Well the petals are in full and they couldn’t be any brighter. In March, I launched my company – Canadian Surrogacy Community. As a…Read More
I think this blog is important to write. Not just for my own therapeutic needs, but for the many people who are curious about how I felt the first week after giving birth to Luca. The ‘It must be strange to go home without a baby’ comment kept being repeated and I began to understand…Read More
“You see, pouches are where baby kangaroos are kept cozy and warm until they are ready to come out into the world.” – The Kangaroo Pouch, by Sarah Phillips Pellet And so it came to be that on Tuesday, October 8th, at 8:38 pm, baby Luca Emanuele Furtado, came out of my pouch and…Read More